My daughter and my son are (how do i put this politely...)difficult together. Make me scream difficult. Makes me lock myself in the bathroom and say SERENITY NOW SERENITY NOW difficult. Now, don't get me wrong. I love my children. Just not all together.
(I am singing cruel summer from ace of base in my head)
My son and daughter just butt heads about everything. It's a competition with everything. who got the bigger spoon, who gets to sit in the middle chair, who can talk the fastest who can get dressed the fastest who can jump the highest who can get mom to cry the first.....
(not an over exaggeration)
So I am trying a preemptive strike to keep my any bald spots from forming....
I am really enforcing these Past crafts:
My clothespin discipline chart (which I should say works like a dream! I just say PURPLE and my son's all "I'll be good...I'll be good!"
and my spinner which helps us to make the important decisions in life--Like who gets to sit where and who's turn is it say the prayer and who gets to pick the movie.
I'm also implementing some new things.
Remember these cute things from brown paper packages
I made me some knock off versions for our "Good Deeds"
(yes, I realize mine aren't as cute. I have accepted it and moved on)
I found a whole big bag of these poker chips (I was orginally going to use tickets) for $1 at the thrift store.
I painted some so we had a rainbow of colors
and then for family night we sat down and talked about what are good deeds and what would be not so good deeds.( the list of not so good deeds is as follows:
No biting
No punching
No throwing things at peoples heads
No kicking
No poking people's eye balls out
No scratching
No pulling hair
(which I lumped into
Don't fight or hit )
(makes you want to come to our house don't it?)
and made our family rules to help us remember what we should be doing (or what we shouldn't be doing!)
(Just painted the frame (it had no glass) and used a couple different cricut cartridges to make them all fit.)
( to make the flowers: cut out circle and then cut it out cinnamon roll style and roll it up you can do it tight or loose....I liked mine loose)
i HOT GLUED the flowers on cause my gun was feeling neglected
You do something good (or you don't do something bad) you get a token. ( I was thinking about color coordinating the rules with the tokens but talked myself out of it!) You get enough tokens you get to do something fun! (those really fun things are coming in my next installment of "Trying to survive SUMMER!")
(Hey look at this other cute family rules that I found:
OMG I LOVE THIS!!!!!! Do you think I would look crazy if I used that chart w/ a 10 yr old cause I really need it. This post is like Christmas for me..lol Do you have anything for Chores. Ive tried it all and now I think I found the solution!!!
ReplyDeleteAs a former SPED teacher, I love all your behavior management techniques. So much better than yelling and screaming!!!!
ReplyDeleteI agree. I am a retired sped teacher who worked with juvinile deliquents (not kidding half are doing life terms) and ran in a psych hospital for children. This is one of the best home discipline and reward system I have seen. Good for you. And there is nothing wrong with a mommy time-out...or day off.
ReplyDeletegreat ideas! I came over from sew much ado. Growing up my family had a lot of these type of "helps" as well. Worked well for us when we didn't have much to fight over. We even had assigned seats in the car...
ReplyDeleteI wish I'd had these ideas when my six kids were little! Would have been a great help! I'm visiting with sew much ado.
ReplyDeleteI know that I said that I was going to make the clothes pin one already, but I am seriously going to get it done before summer break starts. I have until 6/9. I am also going to make the spinner. I am so sick of the ME fights.
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LOVE it! And just about everything you do and make...Wanted to share something that has been successful for us...(to ease summer torture...I mean fun)...we have a chart that I add stars to each time I catch the kids getting along, being kind to each other, including each other, etc Then we pick one of the fun things the kids have said they wanted to do!
ReplyDeleteGreat project, but sadly, I will need to remove this link from the Boardwalk Bragfest party. I don't see a link to the party on your post. I would love for you to insert the link IN YOUR POST and try again. Remember "Boardwalk Bragfest" must be visible from your post. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteYou are so very creative!!!
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Loves!!
ReplyDeleteThese are some great idea.
ReplyDeleteThanks for linking up with Sugar & Spice.
5 words for you; i know how you feel - my kids are replicas :oP
ReplyDeleteIf it's any consolation, I think my mom probably had many "Serenity Now" moments during my childhood. My brother and I are 8 years apart, and that means we did NOT get along. He was the annoying little brother who could only get in my way. I was the much-worshiped (okay, I'm editorializing now) older sister who wouldn't pay him any attention. And now, we're the best of friends - years after I left home for college and got out on my own. He's been on only kid for 7 years. Lucky him. :) They'll come around to liking one another soon.
ReplyDeleteI love it ALL...your "rules" frame is adorable:) Thanks for adding the link to my rules board...that was very sweet of you:)
ReplyDeleteYou always have the cutest projects!!
ReplyDeleteSee, I totally understand - it is just like my world when you say:
ReplyDeleteNow, don't get me wrong. I love my children. Just not all together.
Okay, I need to make ALL of these ideas! I love the clothespin chart, the family rules frame, the poker chips for dollar store credit... okay, like I said, I love them all! Thanks for linking and giving me these great ideas that I need :).
ReplyDeleteIt is all so adorable! I will be making and implementing all of those ideas as Avery grows into them! I love your blog, and am in the middle of moving... would you consider guest posting for me? If interested email me! delicateconstruction@live.com
ReplyDeleteThese are some great ideas!! I really like the spinner. Also...you made it to my side bar! I love your blog. And I am in the middle of making the denim apron. Hopefully it will turn out as cute as yours!
ReplyDeleteI just made the clothespin discipline chart last night. I hope it works!! Thanks for all the great ideas.
ReplyDeletethat is sooo cute!!! I want one;)
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Very very cute! I love the color of the frame!!
ReplyDeleteSo cute! I love the colors and love this family rules idea! This is definitely going into the must-do catalog!
ReplyDeleteSaw your post on Sew Much Ado. Loved it. Read it to my kids since we appear to be living with the same kids. I am going to try this and see if it works for me. I am also going to try to add in a chore version too. Keep up the good work.
ReplyDeleteI used this idea today, mine is not as nice as yours but will work..Thank you =)
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These are awesome. I'm going to try the cloths pin chart and spinner on my two little kids. Who, I'm pretty sure, are related to yours! The competition is fierce! I love your blog. I'm going to follow! Good luck in your war (it is how I found you) and I hope you get a chance to visit!
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